How To Find Peace In Your Daily Life

Whether you’re overwhelmed at work or dealing with issues in your personal life, it can sometimes feel as though peace is hard to come by. After all, there’s so much happening in the world around us (and within our own minds), that we’ve come to accept feelings of stress and anxiety as part of our routine.

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However, it does not have to be that way – and it’s crucial that you make positive changes that will enable you to better care of your mental health. With that in mind, here are some simple ways to find peace in your daily life. 

Identify the cause
Sometimes, it can feel as though we are stressed or anxious for no good reason – whether these feelings manifest in our thoughts or through physical symptoms such as dizziness and chest palpitations. However, identifying your stressors will enable you to reduce your exposure to them or at least help you determine which coping mechanisms come in handy during these times. 

Turn to your faith
Whether you are a part of the Living Church of God or a smaller church, many people find peace through reaffirming their faith. For example, you could attend church more regularly or pray. Many people also find that faith can help with loneliness and anxiety by providing you with a community to rely on when things get tough. 

Practice self-care
Adopting daily self-care habits is another great way to find peace in your daily life. This is because self-care is geared toward teaching you how to relax but ensuring that your needs are met daily. Simply put, the more you practice self-care, the less likely you neglect your wants and needs, making finding peace within yourself much more manageable. 

Accept what you can’t control
Sometimes our worries and anxieties are grounded in practicality. For example, you may be worried about a job interview as you want this new position. However, on other occasions, worries are impractical because what we worry about is beyond our control. For example, this could include worrying about the weather in a few days. Accepting what you cannot control will help you find peace, as you’ll be able to spend less time in your head thinking about the what-ifs.

Learn from, then let go of, your mistakes
We all make mistakes from time to time – but how we respond to them determines how they impact us. For example, when you hold onto a mistake and continue to chastise yourself for it, or wonder what other people are thinking, you’re putting a barrier between yourself and peace. However, when you view the mistake as an opportunity to grow or learn something, you can put the past behind you and move forward with your head held high. In short, it stops you from dwelling on the past, so you can focus on the present. 

Paul’s Promise (Movie Review and Giveaway)

Hello, Elegant Ones,

Do you believe your past dictates your current situation and affects your future? That is the topic of the new movie PAUL’S PROMISEwhich is based on the true story of Paul Holderfield.

Set in the late 1960s at the height of the Civil Rights Movement, PAUL’S PROMISE chronicles a pivotal point in Paul’s life. As his mother nears the end of her life, Paul must heal from the pain caused by an abusive father and correct how he treats his family and friends.

PAUL’S PROMISE is the movie everyone needs to see in 2022. It brings to light many vital topics, including racism, faith, family, forgiveness and facing past demons. This is one man’s story of emotional trauma and battling with whether to change his life.

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Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.

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You will see some familiar faces in this movie. If you remember watching Matlock or have seen the reruns, you will know Linda Purl and Nancy Stafford. If you have seen the Superman television series, you will remember Dean Cain.

Here is a sneak peek of the movie’s trailer.

PAUL’S PROMISE debuts in theaters on Friday, October 21st. Click HERE to purchase your tickets at a theater near you.

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October Is Breast Cancer Awareness Month

Hello, Elegant Ones

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month,

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I’m sending you a note, like a family member would stop by and say hello, to check up on you.  If you have not scheduled your annual mammogram checkup, it is time to get it done. I have my check-up every year in June as a way to remember my mother, and for myself and my family.

Are you saying in your head, “I’m afraid”? Don’t be afraid, for 2 Timothy 1:7 says God has not given you a spirit of fear but of power and a sound mind. Many websites offer information about breast cancer and offer ways to help, including breastcancer.org and the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation. It should be a part of your routine checkups on your health and wellness plan. Statistics show that one in eight women will develop breast cancer in their lifetime, and in 2022 more than 40,000 women are expected to die from the disease. One way to bring those numbers down is to have annual checkups with your doctor and to get your mammogram.

QVC is donating $50,000 to the National Breast Cancer Foundation (NBCF). If you want to help the cause, you can shop or make a donation at the QVC website. Such a great way to support.

Pink Ribbon Breast Cancer Awareness Month

This is a loving reminder from the Bubbling with Elegance and Grace Team to encourage you to get your mammogram, and then to encourage another woman to get hers. The more women we reach, the healthy all women can be.

How To Stay Ahead Of The Week As A Busy Woman

As a busy woman, falling behind on the week is easy. Between work, errands, and taking care of the kids, it can be hard to find time for yourself. But if you want to stay ahead of the week, there are some things you can do to make it happen.


Here are seven tips for staying ahead of the week as a busy woman:

Get organized
The first step to staying ahead of the week is to get organized. Taking time each day to plan out your schedule and To-Do list can help you make the most of your time and avoid feeling overwhelmed. Designating specific days for specific tasks will also help you stay on track. For example, Monday could be for laundry and grocery shopping, Tuesday for cleaning the house, Wednesday for errands, and so on.

Set aside time for you and your partner
Setting aside time for your relationship, even if it’s just a few minutes each day is essential. Whether you use this time to talk, take a bath, or relax, carving out some private time as a couple will help you recharge and avoid burnout.

Delegate and ask for help
You must delegate tasks and ask for help to stay ahead of the week. Suppose there are certain things that someone else can do just as well as you. Don’t hesitate to hand them off. And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t be afraid to ask for help from your spouse, a friend, or even a professional.

Take breaks
Although staying on top of things is essential, taking breaks is also vital. If you’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed, step away from whatever you’re doing and take some time to yourself. A few minutes of downtime can make a world of difference.

Prepare a weekly eating plan
Another way to stay ahead of the week is to have an eating plan. Whether you meal prep on the weekends or make sure you have quick and easy meals on hand, having a food plan will help you save time and avoid decision fatigue. This can be as simple as meat-free Mondays, a southern fried fish recipe on Tuesdays, Pizza on Wednesdays, etc. Feel free to mix it up as you see fit.

Get enough sleep
To function at your best, it’s essential to get enough sleep. If you’re finding it hard to get enough rest, try implementing a bedtime routine or setting aside some time each day for a nap.

Make time for fun
Last but not least, don’t forget to make time for fun. Although it’s essential to be productive, enjoying your life is also important. Whether you schedule a weekly girls’ night or make time for  a movie night with the family, find ways to have fun and relax.
There you have it!
By following these tips, you can stay ahead of the week and avoid feeling overwhelmed. Remember to take things one step and seek help when needed.

The Lost Art of Saying Thank You

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According to Google, the definition of “Thank You” is a polite expression used when acknowledging a gift, service, compliment, or accepting or refusing an offer. I question how often we say thank you or give thanks and do not expect anything in return. Sometimes I wonder when I get no response from a given gift that they did not like the gift, or they simply don’t say thanks. One example of wondering about the world of thank you is when I had given a wedding shower gift that was purchased from the bride’s registry and received no email or card of thanks. I guess no response is good, but it made me think back to my mother’s words. When I received a gift or a compliment, she always made sure that I said to say thank you or send a card. No matter what the gift was, it was just something I was taught to do to show gratitude. I realized that how I was brought up to show gratitude isn’t necessarily how others have been. However, I also have reciprocated by someone giving me something and expecting something in return. That was not a gift but a tool, and there’s a difference.

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How would you feel if you had ever given a gift if the reciprocate never said thank you?

In the Forbes article, “Pause And Say Thank You,” author Jon Dwoskin gave a  30-day challenge of expressing thanks to at least one person daily. He then asked to look at how that made you feel. Would you take that challenge?

Whether it is an email, an e-card, or a text message, it all counts as ways of showing gratitude.

This song By Diana Ross called Thank You puts a smile on my face, so I wanted to share this video.

In this world, we must show gratitude to those who appreciate it and those who do not. It is okay if a person does not appreciate your thankfulness and gratitude because you will feel inside that gratitude for what you have done by planting that seed of love.

Thank You!

How to Identify and Tackle Your Stressors in 3 Simple Steps

Everyone knows that stress is not good for you. It can cause various health problems, from headaches and stomachaches to anxiety and depression. What many people don’t realize is how to identify the sources of stress. Once you know where your stress is coming from, you can start to tackle it more effectively. This post will discuss three simple steps to help you identify and deal with your stressors!

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Be aware of your body’s response to stress
Your body is always giving you clues about when you’re feeling stressed. Pay attention to physical cues like a racing heart, clenched jaw, or tense muscles. These can be signs that you’re under more stress than you realize. If you can learn to recognize these signals, it’ll be easier to take steps to reduce your stress before it gets too overwhelming.

Stress can manifest in emotional symptoms like anxiety, irritability, or difficulty sleeping if you notice that you’re more prone to these feelings when under pressure, it’s a good idea to take some time to relax and de-stress.

Identify your stressors
Once you know how your body responds to stress, it’s time to start identifying the sources of that stress. This can be anything from a looming deadline at work to relationship problems at home. If you’re unsure what’s stressing you out, try keeping a journal for a week or two and jotting down when you feel most stressed. Then, once you have a better idea of your stressors, you can tackle them one by one.

One common source of stress is trying to do too many things at once. If you find yourself constantly juggling multiple tasks, see if there’s anything you can delegate or let go of altogether. Simplifying your schedule will help reduce your overall stress levels.

Another common stressor is chronic worrying. If you worry about things that are out of your control, consider a natural remedy like an hhc vape and remind yourself that there’s nothing you can do about them right now. Worrying will only make you feel more stressed, so it’s essential to let go of those worries when they creep up.

Come up with a plan to deal with your stressors
Once you’ve identified your stressors, it’s time to start developing a plan to deal with them. For each stressor, ask yourself what you can do to reduce its impact on your life. If you’re stressed about an upcoming deadline, you might make a plan to break the project down into smaller tasks and set aside specific times to work on it. If you’re worried about an argument with a friend, you might decide to talk it out or take some time apart until things have cooled down.

By following these four simple steps, you’ll be on your way to reducing the amount of stress in your life. Just remember to be patient and take things one step at a time! Soon, you’ll be feeling more relaxed and in control.

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