Body Image: Runway versus Reality

After my last week’s Friend Friday post, Nothing Compares To Me, I continued to think about body image; and how no matter what size a woman is, she should be accepted and feel good about herself.  So many women, thin or plus size, feel that there is some flaw that makes them unattractive. Models in the fashion magazines are looking  thinner and thinner. No wonder why we have so many issues with body image.

When will the fashion industry start to truly show all sizes and shapes of women and men in the media?

I came across the article, Beauty and the (Media) Beast by Layla Revis on Ogilvy’s WomenOlogy, the Anatomy of Marketing to Women website.  It was good to read an article about body image from a person who works in the marketing industry. We often here that sex sells and Ms. Revis straight up stated that “we have been lied to.” It’s a known fact that the media industry uses sex to sell everything from fragrance to handbags. What is profound is that Ms. Revis shows fact that the more sex in advertisements, the lower the brand recall.  Did you hear that? The lower the brand recall.

According to Revis
“In fact, a study conducted by Steadman found that brand-name recall was significantly lower in sexual advertisements than non-sexual advertisements. Still, we can continue to tell our clients and our kids that same played out line.”

So the media industry is pushing sex in their advertisements which paints a body image of what the consumer should try to imitate.  These so-called standards or fairy tale high expectations are unachievable and a complete facade.

Revis in her article mentioned the famous video below from the DOVE Campaign for Real Beauty with Ogilvy that went viral in 2004. It’s been almost seven years and we are dealing with body image now more than ever.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=38ak3sS5Y40&feature=related

It is a shame that even with a viral video that is so pivotal and groundbreaking that we still see models that have low BMI’s and are under body weight.

There’s nothing wrong with being thin if you are at a healthy weight for your height and body frame.  What is wrong is that all sizes are not represented on the fashion runways and in fashion magazines.

Chanel Designer Karl Lagerfeld in 2009 said of women complaining about only seeing skinny models on the runway “that the women complaining about too-skinny models were just fat and jealous.”  Well in 2010 Mr. Lagerfeld did a photo shoot for V magazine of Burlesque star, Miss Dirty Martini whom happens to be a plus size.

Stylist.com

He still looks like he is defending thin models because she does not have any Chanel clothing on, only accessories.  If he felt that she was worth photographing, he would have put some clothes on her. The Chanel fashion shows that I have seen did not show any models wearing what she is wearing on in this shoot.  Does he really have a changed heart? I suspect not!

Designers are creating fashions for women. Don’t they realize that if they tap into the market of misses and plus sizes that it’s a win-win situation here.

Many sources state that the average American woman is 5′ 3.7 tall, weighs 152 pounds and wears a size 14. This corresponds to a Body Mass Index of 26.3. In comparison, Revis said in her article, “the typical model 5′ 9 and 110 pounds, which would mean a BMI of about 16. Far less than the 18.5 BMI which is considered to be underweight.”

Women, whether thin or plus size, want to see models that look like them so that they can picture what the clothing will look like on their bodies.

I have hope that one day we will see all sizes of women and men walking on those runways and strutting their stuff and feeling proud.

According to Merriam-Webster Self Esteem means: a confidence and satisfaction in oneself. However, when a young girl or a woman sees a tall, but underweight girl on the runway, her confidence and satisfaction in herself can be destroyed. The fashion industry has created a fake reality on the runway that many women are believing to be true. It is time to bring the real reality back to the runway by including women in every size range.

Naked Beauty 6-piece Color Collection

Smashbox Naked Beauty 6-piece Color Collection

 Everyone wants to be a natural beauty looking like they don’t need any makeup on at all.  Well a little makeup to make me look like a natural beauty is great and this Smashbox collection is great.  I really like how the brow-tech feels in my brows and make them look almost perfect.  The dual lip-gloss is awesome because you get this clear shimmer on one end and a nude peach shinmer on the other,  I like to add the clear to the bottom lip and the peach to the top lip and then press my lips together to great a completely different shade. The kit also includes a sample of primer in a tube and a just came from the beach looking blush.
This kit retails for $42 but on QVC they offered the kit at a this day only price of $29.00.  Great buy!

Below is the description of the product from www.qvc.com

What is it: Have you ever wanted a makeup routine that would deliver a natural look? When a beautifully natural yet pulled-together look is what you’re going for, the Naked Beauty kit has you covered with all the essential elements to pull off this me-but-better effect. This kit contains our award-winning Photo Finish foundation primer, skin softening Soft Lights in Tint, Cream Eye Liner in Putty, our artist favorite and award-winning lip product Double Ended Lip Enhancing Gloss, and our natural brow grooming system Brow Tech Trio.

Who is it for: The Naked Beauty kit was created to deliver the “I wake up looking this naturally beautiful” look. In the past, a barely there, natural look could take longer to perfect than a dramatic glam look. The makeup artists at smashbox collaborated about what go-to products they reach for every time a fresh face look is what the shoot needs. From that collaboration came the Naked Beauty kit. Softly define your eyes and cheekbones, deliver a skin-softening glow to your complexion, and create a pout shinier than ever before while perfecting your brow with our brow grooming system.

Why is it different: These five essential products create a beautiful look, no matter what your day holds in store.

How do I use it: Apply the Photo Finish foundation primer to clean, moisturized skin. Follow with your foundation of choice. Next, use the Brow Tech Trio which will provide natural-looking definition to your brows. Simply comb the Brow Tech powder through your brows paying extra attention to sparse areas in order to make the brow look uniformly dense. Use the skin softening powder Soft Lights as blush to the apples of your cheeks and the planes of your face. It can also be used as your eye shadow. Cream Eye Liner should be pressed into the top lashes, beginning at the outer corner of the eyes and working inward. Finally, apply our award-winning Lip-Enhancing Gloss duo.

From smashbox.

Includes:

  • 0.5 oz Photo Finish foundation primer
  • 0.12 oz double-ended, lip-enhancing lip gloss in Go
  • Bare, a rosy nude shimmer/peach nude
  • 0.123 oz Soft Lights illuminating powder in Tint, a warm nude peach
  • 0.04 oz cream eye liner in Putty, a warm brown
  • 0.06 oz Brow Tech trio in Taupe and Brunette
  • Double-ended cream eyeliner angled brow brush
  • Eyeliner/Brow Tech trio/brush made in China; All else made in USA

Have you seen the Gingerbread Man

My hubby is tops in my book and the handsomest man alive. However, I really love the Gingerbread Man philosophy products. The smell is warm and works with men and women. So lather up on those cold winter days with the Gingerbread Man from Philosophy.

At Sephora

The Gingerbread Man™ Foaming Bubble Bath and Shower Gel
What it is:
A sweet, high-foaming, three-in-one cleanser.

What it does:
Let The Gingerbread Man pamper you with an ultra-rich, moisturizing lather that leaves your skin feeling clean and soft.

What else you need to know:
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