by | Oct 25, 2012 | Inspirations |
October is Bullying Prevention Month
I was reading Katherine’s story about bullying and her granddaughter dealing with bullying on Katherine’s Corner. It made me think about one bullying memory.
To think that I post photographs of myself on my blog is a sheer miracle. Considering as a child I was shy and quite introverted; and I was starting to figure out who I was as a person. First and foremost, what purpose God had for me to be here on this earth. It was hard because I was always different and never fit in.
Bullying is such a terrible and emotional thing. As a child you really have to face your fears; and it can be tough to defeat it. I remember when I was in the seventh grade and I left my jelly sandals (rubber sandals that was really popular in the 80s) outside after recess. I had to go back outside to get them. Well, the eighth graders were outside and when they saw I was walking towards my sandals, they started throwing them around. I became quite frustrated because they would not give them back. I kept reaching as they were tossed in the air. Finally they dropped the shoes on the ground and kicked them out of the way. I had to fight back the tears because I couldn’t let them see me cry, I wouldn’t let them see me cry. I ran over and got them and went back to class. I don’t think I told my parents about that because it was too embarrassing.
I tell this short story not for you to feel sorry for me because situations like this made me stronger and tough. But no one should have to deal with stuff like this. Being bullied is wrong and I know a lot of kids are going through a lot of similar situations. The last thing they need is for a another kid that they have to see everyday in school harassing them.
Now I say that is great being different; but when I was a child it seemed like fitting a square into a circle. My mother would always say, “Baby being different is a wonderful thing because God made only one you and you are special.” I cherish those words each and everyday.
This is an interesting video on how to prevent bullying in schools. What it appears that can be done to make bullying non existing in schools can very challenging. I think it is not only the school; but also the parents partnering, with the schools to make bullying non existent.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJ4v7R3MbrU[/youtube]
The word of God says in
Proverbs 23:7 NASB says For as a man thinks so is he (paraphrased).
Please realize that if you are reading this and are being bullied or remember the past of being bullied; remember that you are special and God made only one you. You are BEAUTIFUL and don’t ever forget that!
If you are experiencing bullying, I pray that you are able to reach out to somebody that you can trust. Whether it is a parent, teacher, friend, or a best friend. It is not easy but bullying has to stop and stop now. Bullying prevention starts with me.
by | Oct 22, 2012 | Fashion |
Loving the browns.
This was a cool day to kick in gear my browns for fall. I added color by adding in the pink printed silk blouse and burgundy tights.
JT
The burgundy tights with this outfit shows how versatile colors can be; and how it can really change up an outfit. Yes, I am wearing my Dooney and Bourke birthday handbag.
My wedges are from Poetic Licence and and talking about cute. These shoes were originally $129.00. I was able to purchase them on clearance from HSN.com for only $29.99. Another one of my great fines.
Poetic Licence
Another view of the wedges. These summer shoes can be transitioned into fall with the tights. Step out on the wild side and give it a try. Now will I wear them in the cold winter probably not but this look is totally appropriate for fall.
Poetic Licence
Listening to some Kirk Whalum while I am writing this post, talking about smooth jazz.
by | Oct 17, 2012 | Fashion |
JT in her St. Cardinals hoodie
This is a not so wordless Wednesday; because I wanted to tell my story of how I got such a good deal on this hoodie. I don’t own many hoodies but I wanted a St. Louis Cardinals hoodie to support my favorite team. I really didn’t want to spend a lot of money. Well my hubby and I went to Macys’ about a couple of weeks ago and we were getting him some socks. I just so happen to go to a rack with this hoodie and it was in my size. Meant to be! I was able to get this hoodie for more than 50% off the retail price.
JT in Cardinal hoodie
For a hoodie it’s not bad at all. I wore it and felt good in the shoes. The purchase definitely worth it.
JTwisdom
The Cardinals are playing today so I have to root for my team.
JT
by | Oct 15, 2012 | Fashion |
I am going in and out of summer and fall clothes because the weather is fluctuating. As I have said many times, when the weather is up and down; layering is a sure winner in my book. Today started out chilly, in the 40s. I wore my scarf from Target, my Susan Graver faux leather jacket , my new dress from Handworks of India, hand made dress by Ware, tights, flats and my Dooney and Bourke handbag.
JT in new dress
If I get a little warm I can take the scarf off and and the faux leather jacket and I am ready. The dress is so comfortable and chic and I love the hand embroidery detail of the flower in the dress.
JT in Handworks of India handmade dress by Ware
The dress has a tie belt that I tied in the front for more definition in the waist.
JT
The accessories:
Cross necklace – gifted
Turquoise earrings – Palace of the Governors in Santa Fe, New Mexico
Dooney and Bourke Vacheeta Leather handbag
Gem bracelet – gifted
Bow Headband – JC penney
This is one of my favorite outfits.
This post is linked to:
Not Dead Yet Style
by | Oct 15, 2012 | Travels |
The leaves are falling!
I have some dream vacations that I would like to take in the near future. Many friends tell me that I need to make sure I plan ahead and do my research. So I started searching the web and came across hotels on sites like venere.com. I have dreams of going to Rome, Italy, and France is also a possibility. The sky is the limit. My husband and I have our passports so we can cross that off of the list. We were thinking that we could renew our wedding vows on our 15th wedding anniversary in a couple of years. Just sharing our own personal vows privately together. I saw a vlog of fellow blogger and her husband renew their vows privately and it was really sweet.
I searched the New York Times site and it made me think about where and how I want to travel. When you sit down and think about these questions and write down your responses, it puts your dream trip into perspective. Once my hubby and I decide on the reasons for going on a trip, we start looking at airfares and see what looks like the best deal. When we travelled to the Caribbean a year ago, we looked at ticket prices online and waited it out to see if the prices would go down. After a week of searching, the prices were pretty good. We jumped on the price. Once you get your ticket you have to plan the trip, it may seem early but it is such a release from stress.
Tips on traveling
- Do your research and make sure you know why you want to go to a exotic destination
- Make sure your passports are up to date and all the information you need for your trip.
- Do not over pack with a lot of extra clothes. I spend time packing because I wanted to make sure I pack what I need in rolls because I do not want to carry that extra baggage.
- If you will be on vacation for a week or more please have mail and newspaper delivery is put on hold until you get back
- Do not carry a lot of jewelry with you. I usually only take the jewelry I have on. I do not like carrying my expensive jewelry with me because I don’t want anything to come up missing.
- Make sure you call your burglar alarm company if you have a security system and let them know that you are going out of town.
In a future post I will show you how I folded my clothes to have more than enough room in my luggage.
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